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18 March 2004 — Of Butter, Sugar, and Salt (19)

Cravings are the curse of all dieters.

Some long for specific foods — steak or donuts or soda — while others, such as myself, have more generalized cravings. I crave sugar and salt.

Of course, non-dieters suffer cravings, too.

Jennifer, who does not diet (she has no need), is fond of butter. She puts it on everything. She slathers butter on bread. She uses alarming quantities of it when preparing vegetables for dinner. Indeed, Jenn has passed this love of butter on to her children, Harrison (5) and Emma (3). Emma's love of butter is such that she has been known to seize an unattended stick of the stuff, to eat it raw.

I grew to adulthood without a taste for butter. In fact, it's only in the past several years that I've learned to tolerate the stuff. As a child, and a young adult — even as a grown man — I would eschew buttered popcorn and, especially, buttered bread. Now I deal with it (though I never choose a buttered option over a non-buttered option). When served a piece of buttered bread, I "close my eyes and think of England".

That is not to say that butter ought to be considered evil. Not at all. I realize that Jennifer and her family are representative of the greater population and that I am the anomaly. I consider their butter addiction to be of dubious merit; they believe my sugar addiction warrants close scrutiny.

When I began this diet, Jeremy and I had a conversation about the current fad for low-carb regimens. I re-iterated my disdain for diets that shunned carbohydrates for fat, at those that cautioned against an addiction to sugar. Jeremy fixed me with a serious gaze: "J.D., you could stand to cut some sugar from your diet."

He was right. Moreover, I think there might be something to this idea of an addiction to sugar.

When I allow my cravings to direct my menu, they invariably lead me to meals such as these favorites: honey toast and hot cocoa; donuts and orange juice; fresh chocolate chip cookies and milk; Fruit Loops or Cocoa Puffs or Lucky Charms; a bag of jelly beans.

During the first two months of this diet, it's been a challenge to limit my sugar intake. I eat a burrito for lunch and find that my body craves sugar. (And so I walk into Tony's office and pilfer six SweetTarts from an open box.) I eat chicken and peas for dinner and find that my sweet tooth impels me to find a source &mash; any source! — of sugar, so that I discover I am standing in the pantry with a bag of jumbo marshmallows in my hand. Mmmm.

It's not just sugar I crave; I also crave salt. I sometimes wonder if I couldn't get by on a diet comprising only granulated sugar and rock salt. Perhaps I should try it some time.

Just as Emma has been known to feast on raw butter, I've been known to snack on a pinch of salt. In a restaurant, hungry and waiting, I just might pour a bit of salt in my hand and snack on it while I wait for the meal to arrive. More often, if I am introduced to a particularly good salt (a gourmet salt, for example), I cannot help but sample it. Repeatedly. (Damn that Craig and his Portugeuse salt! That stuff is fantastic.)

BIG PAPA!Kris, too, seems to share this predilection for salt. From time-to-time, as a snack, she allows herself a Big Papa pickle. She even saves the juice. She drains the salty pickly juice into a glass and stores it in the fridge until several days later, at which time she indulges her salt tooth a second time. Yes, I know: gross.

Why Jenn's love of butter? Why my love of sugar? Why Kris' love of salt? Do they serve a biological purpose?

Experience has taught me to listen to my body's cravings. If I'm thirsty, I drink. If I crave protein, I have a piece of meat. If I crave complex carbohydrates, I eat rice or pasta. It's surprising how attuned one can become to the body's signals with just a little effort.

But why is it that so often my body seems to be crying, "Sugar! Sugar! Sugar!"

On this day at foldedspace.org

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Comments
On 18 March 2004 (07:57 AM), Tammy said:

You could be craving sugar because of an overabundance of insulin. Insulin demands sugar. This condition is commonly known as hypoglocemia and runs in our family. Or you could be craving sugar because it's something everybody is born with. You probably do not know this, or at least do not rememeber tasting this, but mothers milk is very sweet! Incredibly sweet. A newborn baby loves sweet milk. It's universal. That craving for something sweet has kept the human race alive all these thousnds of years. If breast milk were salty or bitter or spicy you and i wouldn't be here to complain about our sugar cravings. Embrace it. It's the staff of life!


On 18 March 2004 (08:18 AM), Lisa said:

For those of you who want your own Portuguese sea salt, we bought it from Jim Dixon (http://www.realgoodfood.com). His website says "Necton flor de sal is available at In Good Taste (NW 12th and Everett)."

For more unusual salts--and they do all have their own flavors--go to World Merchants in Pike Place Market in Seattle. We get all of our spices here too. Naturally, we have to order online nowdays. http://www.worldspice.com/

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On 18 March 2004 (08:22 AM), Courtney said:

Hmmm...well, J.D., this may cause your more disdain, but there is a book out there called "Sugar Busters" (I haven't read it myself):

Publisher Comments:
When SUGAR BUSTERS! hit the shelves almost five years ago, it quickly became a diet and lifestyle phenomenon, soaring to the number one spot on the New York Times bestseller list and embraced by millions of people across the country. Those satisfied individuals on the SUGAR BUSTERS! plan discovered that by simply choosing the correct carbohydrates and lowering their sugar intake, they could shed the pounds they failed to lose with other diets. Now the weight-loss program that swept the nation has been completely revised and updated–incorporating all the newest nutritional findings, health statistics, and scientific studies, including the latest on glycemic levels.

It may be worth a read.


On 18 March 2004 (08:30 AM), J.D. said:

I should point out that on this current diet, my sugar intake has crept up with each passing week. During the first week of the diet, I think I averaged about 40g of sugar per day. After the first month, I was up to ver 50g of sugar a day. Now I'm probably at 60g of sugar a day.

I'm trying to cut back hard on the sugar right now, and as a result, it's all I can seem to think about. :(


On 18 March 2004 (09:00 AM), tammy said:

I not only have read sugar busters I have also done the diet. I stuck to it religiously for 2 months and didn't lose a single pound. I did feel better though.


On 18 March 2004 (11:45 AM), Mom (Sue) said:

Unfortunately, J.D., there is a serious sweet tooth that runs in the family. My dad had it, and I have it, and it looks like you have it as well. Even with my counting calories, I still manage to allot some calories for sweet things. Diabetes also runs in the family from both my mom's and my dad's side. There may be a relationship, although diabetes wasn't the worst of my dad's problems or a contributor to his death, as far as I know. My mother seemed to be more inclined towards fatty foods when I was young -- I remember her spreading sugar cookies with butter! Now she is an insulin-dependent diabetic, and I am also diabetic, but it has been mostly controlled in the past by diet and exercise, although the counts are creeping up.

I try to choose more healthful sweet things such as oranges and to snack more on Tillamook cheese (in sparing amounts, as it's high in fat and calories) and crackers, but the sweets still make their way into my diet. I'm proud to say I threw out an assortment of Aussie biskies (or biscuits; cookies to us) the other day! But I can't bring myself to throw out the other goodies I have around the place, especially chocolate ones. I find, though, that there is a mental process, which you are experiencing, that says, if deprived of a food, I want it to an obsessive level. It's a constant battle for me to deal with that. Part of it may be because of being on a medication that can cause weight gain, but I am determined to defeat it!


On 18 March 2004 (11:53 AM), Mom (Sue) said:

I just noticed Tammy's comment about mother's milk. I never was able to nurse my babies (and about starved Jeff trying), so they were fed formula instead. I imagine it is sweet -- I can kind of remember having some on a finger and winding up putting that in my mouth and tasting it -- as it would duplicate mother's milk. Babies certainly come to prefer sweets early, too, aside from the milk or formula. I can remember Alex getting his first taste of an ice cream bar at about 5 months. His reaction was a most definite baby reaction of "More!"

I believe we are given our liking of sweet things for a reason but when sweets impair our health, it's a good thing to get more control of our appetite for them as much as we can. (Unfortunately, in saying that, it still is somewhat of a case here of do as I say, not as I do, but I'm working on it. -G-)


On 18 March 2004 (12:16 PM), Jeff said:

Mom (Sue) said: (and about starved Jeff trying)

Well you sure couldn't tell that by looking at me now!

I have been able to lose about 10 lbs. in the last month, mainly because I have been able to ignore my cravings. Ol' King Ding Dong is in the kitchen right now, calling to me. But, I know that if I eat just one, three more will soon follow.

So, no more snacking. If I get the urge to eat something, I just drink water. If I need some protein after work, I will have a small piece of cheese or a scoop of peanut butter.

For breakfast I have a cup of coffee.

If I need a lunch, I will eat a Lean Ole burrito with beans and rice in it.

For dinner, I eat whatever is there until I am full - then I stop.

I keep a mental note of how many calories I am taking in, but I am not religious about it the way JD is. I figure I end up taking in 1500-2000 calories most days.

How long will this self-discipline last? Who knows? I may be back on here next week preaching about the wholesome goodness of Hostess Ding Dongs; but I truly hope not.


On 18 March 2004 (12:29 PM), tammy said:

I nursed my huge Wally boy until last July. He was two and a half years old by then! He nursed a few times afterward, the last being in November. I would have nursed him longer if he would have been normal sized! He loved nursing and so did I. But he was just too big. People thought I was nursing a five year old.


On 18 March 2004 (02:56 PM), Mom (Sue) said:

My sister Kathy nursed her youngest, Eli, until he was pretty old, too, Tammy. My mom said he would go up to Kathy and say, "I want to nurse." Mom figured that was a sign he was old enough that Kathy ought to consider discontinuing nursing him. -G-

It used to be quite common in older days for women to nurse children until they were a lot older than most children are these days when they are weaned (if they are nursed in the first place). Nursing seemed to go out of favor somewhat in the fastidious 50's but was coming back into a good status in the 70's, when I had Tony. One nice thing about nursing is that I've been told you can eat about anything you want and not gain weight. -G-


On 18 March 2004 (03:18 PM), Courtney said:

I think the trick is not to snack in between meals rather than deprive yourself of certain foods. It feels too much like punishment. And, eat well-balanced reasonably sized portions. Or eat 5 smaller meals a day rather than 3 large ones. (I should listen to my own advice.)

I also have a sweet tooth. When I was young my dad had to put sugar on my lettuce so I would eat salad...and he's a dentist! Luckily I've outgrown that. :)


On 18 March 2004 (03:30 PM), Denise said:

To keep your metabolism at a good rate throughout the whole day, you should eat about five times a day, about every 2.5 hours or so, trying to equally divide your calories over the five meal/snacks.

Jeff - not eating breakfast, bad. Drinking water when you think you are hungry - good. It is a fact that when you are dehydrated, your body thinks you are hungry. If you are eating right and still feel hungry it is most likely:

1. You aren't drinking enough water or
2. You aren't eating enough protein.

If you make sure to eat protein throughout the day, you will be less hungry because it takes longer for your body to process the protein than the carbs - but that doesn't mean not to eat carbs, too.

Also, if you have a sweet tooth, eat some sugar - just make sure it is has little to no fat. Hot Tamales are good, or Tootsie Rolls if you want a chocolate fix.

My two cents. Works for me.


On 18 March 2004 (03:40 PM), Eryk said:

Prohibiting yourself from snacking only perpetuates unstable bloodsugar. It's safe, if not necessary, to snack if your goal is to get rid of the sugar cravings. You might try a sensible low-carb diet like the South Beach Diet for two weeks. One of the goals of this induction period is to rid yourself of them. After the two weeks you can then slowly add things back that you like without upsetting the balance you've achieved. It's a really sensible approach.


On 18 March 2004 (03:44 PM), Mom (Sue) said:

I have to agree with you, Denise, about Jeff not eating breakfast. I had intended to comment on that (after all, I am his mother -G-).

I just eat a cobbler bar (a natural cereal and fruit bar I get in the nutrition section at Fred Meyer's) for breakfast most days. It has fruit and grain and contains only 130 calories. Another good breakfast would be a scrambled egg and whole grain toast, but generally I don't take the trouble to make that for myself. (I'm more likely to make it for a breakfast-style dinner.) I have heard that it's better to eat a big breakfast and lunch and a light dinner, but I am too hooked on being able to treat myself to some goodies during the day because I have gone very light on the calories at breakfast time.

The 5 small meals a day thing is a good one. It is better for the blood sugar, whether a person has problems with that or not. If Jeff doesn't get fuzzy-headed from going without breakfast, then I would say if it works for him, then so-be-it, but if he is having problems getting too hungry or staying alert, a light breakfast might be better for him.


On 20 March 2004 (11:20 AM), Nikchick said:

My loving husband has lost over 15 pounds since January by cutting sugars out of his diet, and by cutting back on carbs. Instead of two pieces of toast and cheese, he has one piece of toast and cheese for breakfast. He's using Splenda in his coffee, drinking diet sodas and water instead of sugared sodas and fruit juice. Sugar-free jello instead of cookies, vegetables and hummous instead of chips, etc.

I'm very proud of him.


On 18 June 2004 (10:55 AM), Kris said:

I'm stumbled onto this site searching for "salt craving".

I'm a hardcore salt craver (I never cared for sugar). I too will dump a bit of salt in my hand and eat it plain. I used to carry around those little salt packets and suck on them like hard candy. I also admit to sipping just a bit of the pickle or pepper juice out of the jar after it's empty. I don't save it (I'm slightly ashamed of my salt craving) but I probably would if I lived alone.

I used to salt everything- even already salty dill pickles. But since I was diagnosed with
hypertension (ahem), I've cut way back.

I've read that salt craving may be related to a potassium, calcium or trace mineral deficiency. Interestingly enough, I've noticed that after I've been in salt water, I don't crave it as badly! I don't know what that means other than it's a great excuse to move closer to the ocean.


On 05 May 2005 (01:44 PM), andrea said:

as a kid I use to put salk on my jolly ranchers - mmm


I also use to eat dirt as a kid. I was about 7 or 8 years old (under 10)... eventually I stopped... I haven't eating dirt since... I'm 36 now and I'm craving dirt like crazy... i can see myself going outside one of these and grabbing some dirt to eat... WHY do I crave dirt???


On 05 July 2005 (07:22 AM), irene said:

I heard that craving dirt was a sign of Iron deficiency.


On 29 July 2005 (06:04 PM), joy said:

I,too, am plagued by an overwhelming desire for sweets. Cookies, chocolates, icecream, you name it - the sweeter the better! When someone makes a face because something is too sweet I just shake my head. The only way to kill a sweet tooth is alcohol and I wouldn't recommend that. I've been down that road, although I must say my aversion to sweets was such a relief! There has to be something we could take that would kill this sweet craving. I would like it in pill form wouldn't you guys?


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