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28 May 2004 — Disorganized (14)

Because we are buying a new house, my super power (the power of organization!) has been thwarted. By itself. Meaning that I have super-organized certain sections of my life, already packing away unneeded documents and files. Or, as it turns out, needed documents and files.

Example One
It's well known that I live paycheck-to-paycheck. I don't mind, really. I don't live beyond my means, but neither do I save. I should save, but I don't.

Sometimes this habit has interesting implications.

When it came time to make my car payment last week, I couldn't find the bill. I tried to set up automatic payment via Ford's web site, but couldn't figure out how. I tried to set up automatic payments via my bank's web site, but the payment would not process until five days after it was due, so cancelled it. Instead, I spent an extra three dollars to pay the bill via phone. The payment processed instantly.

No problem, right?

Wrong.

On Wednesday, I woke to find that the on-line payment from my bank had processed, though I thought I'd cancelled it. Yikes! Overdraft city, dude.

What's worse, U.S. Bank (which, you'll remember, I hate) has a policy of processing charges to its customers' accounts in order from the most expensive to the least expensive. Do you see the implication?

If I have three charges to my account — one for $100, one for $50, and one for $25 — and my balance is $80, then if those charges are processed from highest-to-lowest, I'm dinged for three overdraft charges. If they were processed in any other order (by time received, or from lowest-to-highest, for example), the number of overdrafted items would be reduced.

I got dinged for three overdraft charges.

What's worse, our new home equity line of credit came with overdraft protection. But our mortgage broker told us not to touch the home equity line of credit until we use it for the down payment on our new house. Well, fortunately — or unfortunately, I can't decide — the home equity line of credit never kicked in to cover the overdrafts. Instead, I was charged $29 a pop for three overdrafts. For an accidental duplicate car payment. All because I intentionally live near a zero balance in my checkbook.

Am I an idiot?

I called the bank, and to my surprise a very helpful woman volunteered to waive the overdraft charges after hearing my tale of woe. She also volunteered to attempt to reverse the extra payment to Ford. So, things might work out after all.

Example Two
At the end of April, I received a letter informing me that I'd been selected for jury duty at the end of May. I was to mail back a postcard confirming my status. But then we found the house, and I forgot to mail back the postcard.

The county mailed me a letter saying, essentially, "Dude, you have jury duty coming up. Mail us your frickin' postcard or we're going to fine you." So I scrounged around til I found the postcard, and then I mailed it back.

To be safe, I wrote the dates for my jury term on the calendar. And then I tucked the notification in my Box O' Stuff (which, since this whole house thing, I've been carrying around with me wherever I go — it has books and magazines and bills and documents and etc.).

Then I forgot about it.

Until last night while we were eating dinner with Jeremy and Jennifer. Somebody said something that suddenly reminded me that I had jury duty. Starting last Monday.

Crap.

I called the jury help line and found that my number isn't up for service today, but that doesn't mean it wasn't called any of the four previous days this week.

What happens now? Technically, I'm in contempt of court. Seriously. It says so on my jury letter. But what does that mean?

It means I'm disorganized.

Organization may be my super power, but moving is my kryptonite.

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Comments
On 28 May 2004 (08:17 AM), Jeff said:

I think you need to send out the emergency signal for your fellow superhero, Lawyer Man. Maybe he can help you with the contempt of court thingy.


On 28 May 2004 (08:20 AM), J.D. said:

That'd be a good idea, except Lawyer Man is under the knife this morning, having his knee carved up like mine was last year. Lawyer man, are you there? Are you home recuperating yet? Am I a felon?


On 28 May 2004 (08:22 AM), Denise said:

HA! Those two comments are great - I laughed out loud. Thanks for making the morning a bit brighter. I am the only one here at work in my department and it feels a bit like a tomb...I only have to work until 1:00 though!


On 28 May 2004 (08:32 AM), tammy said:

So explain to me how you can buy a house without anything in savings. What am I missing here? Myabe I need to reread this. But I thought that's what you said. And if you truely are living paycheck to paycheck isn't that a bit scarey? So tell me how this works. I know it's none of my business but I find this intriguing and you did tell us you don't save anything so I'm not really intruding on holy ground, am I?


On 28 May 2004 (08:33 AM), Tiffany said:

Our county has gotten serious about people that skip or miss jury duty. If you do not show up on the appointed day, they put out a ‘jury duty bench warrant’. This means if you get putted over or speeding or anything else, they will haul you in to jail and impound you car. From what I understand, these people get 50-100 hours community service plus being put back on the top of the jury service list. If I were you, I would call the court house and try to get rescheduled.


On 28 May 2004 (08:34 AM), Tiffany said:

that is pulled over


On 28 May 2004 (08:40 AM), Kris said:

Tammy, to answer your question, Jd's savings program is called "Kris". He is a spender; I am a saver. So, I have assets which show up for us a couple. We use these assets to buy the house, then Jd pays me back gradually. It's kind of silly, I know, but it works for us.


On 28 May 2004 (08:43 AM), J.D. said:

Tiff, the first thing I did this morning was try to contact the courthouse. I'll try again later this morning. I'm going to be proactive about this, rather than hiding from my mistake.

Tammy, though I may not have any cash in savings, we have enormous equity in our current home. (Thus the home equity line of credit for the down payment.) This is, in effect, a sort of savings, though it's far less liquid than cash.

It doesn't actually scare me to live paycheck-to-paycheck. I'm healthy. I have a job that pays me a decent salary. I'm in no danger of losing that job. I admit that it would be wiser to accumulate some savings, especially now that I'm getting older, but it doesn't bother me not to have it. I've never had it. My parents never had savings, either.

As I said, I don't live beyond my means — I don't spend more than I make — but I live exactly to the edge of my means...

On preview: Kris is right. She and I have completely separate finances. We do not comingle funds. On big purchases, we each contribute half. And she is a saver, and a good one. She's bailed me out of trouble twice before, and believe me, she doesn't let me forget it! :)

Our financial system works well for us. We like having separate finances. It comforts Kris to have her savings, and she's willing to help me if I need it. I like to enjoy the fruits of my labors now, through immediate gratification. Kris benefits from this, too, and so she doesn't complain. Too much.

And you know what? We never fight about money, which I'll bet is something most couples can't say.


On 28 May 2004 (08:52 AM), tammy said:

You're right. I can't say that we never fight about money! And hey, whatever works. Sounds like a good plan! I really don't know if I would be the Kris or the Jd in my spending habits. My money never goes for bills since I get a stipend from my husband so I don't know how I would be if I had to actually pay the bills. Would I save money for a rainy day or spend it all? I don't know!


On 28 May 2004 (08:58 AM), Denise said:

FYI - when you fill out your Jury Duty form that they send you in the mail...if you have a relative that is or was a criminal justice officer of any kind (like my Dad being a policeman) you are NEVER called for jury duty. Ever.

No one in my family has ever been called to jury duty.


On 28 May 2004 (09:28 AM), Tiffany said:

I have gotten out of jury duty twice because of Kris!!


On 28 May 2004 (09:37 AM), Lynn said:

If it's a drunk driving case, they will refuse us evil & judgmental insurance agents from serving every time.


On 08 June 2004 (09:45 AM), J.D. said:

I just got a note from the jury duty woman. She says not to worry about it. Whew! Now mom can stop worrying about me. :)


On 08 June 2004 (03:12 PM), Dave said:

LawyerMan is just now catching up on past blogs, since being out of the office for a day means an extra 3 days worth of crap work to catch up with. This far I haven't found an extra three days in my calendar. To answer the original question, no, you're not a felon. Failing to answer a court summons for jury duty is contempt of court, which is a misdemeanor. This means you are not a felon, but are potentially a misdemeanant.


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