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27 July 2005 — Frightened (30)

On our recent backpacking trip, it became clear that I have an irrational fear of bears. I'd love to do some solo hiking, but I'm convinced that if I did, I'd be eaten by a bear. Possibly by two bears. Or three. I can imagine a family of bears stalking me from trailhead to campsite, plotting the best way to eat me.

I have no idea where I gained an irrational fear of bears. (Too much Reader's Digest?) This has led me to consider the things that scared me when I was younger, such as:

  • Headless chickens — When I was a young boy (two? three? four?), my parents raised chickens. When the time came to "harvest" the birds, my aunt and uncle came over to help cut off their heads and to pluck them. I was traumatized. I wailed and begged Dad not to cut my head off.
  • That Dr. Seuss pants story (what is it called?) — When I was five or six, nothing frightened me more than those disembodied pants chasing the poor fuzzy creature all across Seuss-land. Amazon calls this story "a slightly spooky adventure involving a pair of haunted trousers"; I call it a nightmare.
  • The missing thumb — Around the time of the haunted pants, my family travelled to Sweet Home to see my cousin Ron play in a high school football game. It was my first high school football game. I remember a player being taken from the field by ambulance. I also remember — and here my memory may be faulty — that the injured player had his thumb ripped off. In my mind, I can see the athlete loaded onto the back of the ambulance, a paramedic carrying the severed thumb by a string. (This last image is almost surely false, but it's what I remember.)
  • Augustus Gloop up the chocolate pipe — This is probably the single most frightening experience of my childhood. My parents took me to see Willy Wonka in the theater. What a delight: a wonderland of candy! A river of chocolate! But what's this? Augustus Gloop sucked up a huge pipe? Time to quake with fright, little boy!
  • Papillon — I'm still baffled as to why my parents thought it was okay to take me to see this. (What were you thinking, Mom? Couldn't you find a babysitter?) All I know is that I was haunted for years by the guillotine scene: endless nightmares of beheaded men (and cabbages).
  • Where the Red Fern Grows — My father took me to see the film when I was in grade school, and it was a little scary. Then I read the book. Ugh. As a fourth-grader, I could handle Tolkien with no problem, but the blood-bubble coming out of Ruben's mouth when he falls on his axe was just Too Much. It scarred me.
The following things scared me when I was a little older:
  • Chris Watson poking his eye out — Soon after the Watsons moved to town (I was in sixth grade maybe), Chris stabbed his eye with a pocket knife while whittling in the wrong direction. He used to make my flesh crawl by recounting the story, embellished more each time until — in retrospect — it was beyond belief: "They took my eyeball out of the socket and set it on a table to work on it. But it was still attached to my head by a bunch of muscles and stuff, and I could look around like normal." Ewww.
  • Alien — This is now one of my favorite films. The first time I saw it, though, it scared the shit out of me.
  • Salem's Lot — I was a late-comer to Stephen King. I read Salem's Lot sometime during my sophomore year of college. It spooked me. At one point an undead vampire boy comes scratch scratching at his best friend's window — I had to put the book down at this point and leave it for days. Yikes.
And, of course, there's always my number one fear, one making a resurgence in recent years:I wonder what I'm frightened of now (besides bears — and nuclear war). I haven't actually meditated in that direction.


Last night, Dave and I took Mitch out for Chinese food at Imperial Garden. I had a fantastic chicken curry. (Since when is that a Chinese dish, by the way?) I also drank an entire pot of tea (possibly more). After dinner, we sipped Laphroaig 15-year for a bit. My poor body. It feels as if its been dragged through a battlefield, a mighty clash between the caffeine and the alcohol: "Stay awake! Go to sleep! Stay awake! Go to sleep!" This morning, I want to let the "go to sleep" contingent declare victory, but I can't.


As I was cleaning my desk yesterday, I found a pair of quotes I meant to post a couple of weeks ago. These are both from Kris, and both from July 5th. They work best when read together

Rhonda had to work on a body today that had been in a barrel for three years. Celeste had a bad day, too. Her car was stolen last night.

Ah, life at the Crime Lab. (Celeste's car was recovered, by the way, which isn't particularly good news for the criminal(s). If you steal a car from somebody who works at the Crime Lab, you've got a greater chance of getting caught than if you were to steal from anyone else.)

On this day at foldedspace.org

2004House Update: Painting   When we left our heroes, they had begun painting their new house. As the action picks up, Kris stays home from work on Monday to do more painting.

2003J.D. in Slumberland   In which a century-old comic strip is enough to give me nightmares.

Comments
On 27 July 2005 (08:36 AM), tony said:

Do colored bears scare you more? Maybe purple or orange or even gray bears.


On 27 July 2005 (08:41 AM), J.D. said:

Some context for Tony's comment.


On 27 July 2005 (08:45 AM), Tiffany said:

The quotes from Kris made me laugh harder then I have in a while. See you soon.


On 27 July 2005 (09:57 AM), Jim Osmer said:

RE: Salem's Lot
I actually scared a woman in college by reminding her of that scene in the book (Bethany). It was enough to make her run across the room and slam a window down.


On 27 July 2005 (10:07 AM), alan said:

I was scared by Aliens and I was -- what -- 17 or 18 when it came out, but I love it now!

Childhood fear include the aforementioned Chocolate Suck, the Wicked Witch of the West, and (don't laugh) the Bumble from Rudolph.


On 27 July 2005 (11:03 AM), Pam said:

One of the residents here also had to work on the body in the barrel! He did a lot of complaining since he is not interested in forensics but just on a required rotation.

And a dumb patholgy joke (are there any other kind?) combining autopsies and bear fears:

A German and a Chechoslovakian went on a hunting trip together. When they didn't return after several days, two rangers were sent out to find them. The rangers couldn't find the hunters, only a ransacked camp and two large, sleepy bears.

Feeling pretty certain that the bears were responsible for the hunters' demise, the rangers shot the bears and decided to have them autopsied.
First up was the female bear and indeed, inside were the remains of the German. And the results of the second autopsy? Well, the Czech was in the male!


On 27 July 2005 (12:28 PM), Lynn said:

I also used to (still have?) a fear of nuclear war. I remember lying in bed at night and just fretting about how it would feel to have that wave of death sweep across me. blech.

Another fear of mine is bright eyes. Whether in a horror movie or in a video (Bonnie Tyler's Total Eclipse of the Heart) when people's eyes have no color, I can't look. Scares me to death.


On 27 July 2005 (02:29 PM), Mom said:

Believe me, J.D., I wasn't at all happy that we took you to see Papillon. In fact, I was horrified. For some reason, your dad got it in his mind that it was something that we all ought to do together and when it got gory and I wanted to leave, he still wouldn't hear about it. I'm sorry you had to see that movie.


On 27 July 2005 (03:15 PM), Denise said:

When my parents moved into their current home I was 14 and I had just recently seen A Nightmare on Elmstreet. The house was an old farm house and had a wood burning furnance in the basement (where my room happened to be) that looked just like the furnace in the movie where Freddie supposedly was 'destroyed'.

I had to walk by the thing every day.

Needless to say after about a month I moved to the much smaller, but also much less scary, room upstairs.

And I have always been afraid of mice and rats.


On 27 July 2005 (03:37 PM), Mom said:

It's interesting that you remember the incident with the chickens and you not wanting your head cut off, as you were probably about 3 -- maybe just barely. Your dad was really stricken that you felt that way and that was probably one reason why we didn't raise any more chickens after that.


On 27 July 2005 (04:43 PM), nate said:

Jaws still gets me now and then -- not the movie, but the fear of murky water. Let's just say that sometimes I experience as much terror as fun when I go innertubing.

Spiders used to really freak me out on principle, but now we have An Understanding. I'll leave them alone, as long as they're not startling me. If they have the poor judgement to catch me by surprise, then it's game on.

Oh, and mirrors scare the hell out of me to this day -- partly thanks to the horror cliche of spotting the killer behind you in them, and also because of a traumatizing episode of Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction, a show hosted by Jonathan Frakes of Will Riker fame. I avoid looking in them at night at all costs, no matter the awkwardness or inconvenience.


On 27 July 2005 (05:05 PM), Paul J. said:

The latter "Invasion of the Bodysnatchers" scared the shit of me for weeks. The scene near the end when the lead female character (Karen Allen?) succombs the pods and her face melts off ruined me for quite a while. I think Donald Sutherland was in this too???


On 27 July 2005 (05:07 PM), Paul J. said:

Invasion of the Bodysnatchers (1978). Brooke Adams not Karen Allen.


On 27 July 2005 (05:53 PM), Jim Osmer said:

Invasion of the Body Snatchers (the Donald Sutherland version) ruined me for years. combined with insomnia--not a good thing.
Other movies I wish I never saw as a kid: Kingdom of the Spiders (with William Shatner, the spiders win), Grizzly (not a Disney movie like we thought, sort of Jaws in the forest)


On 27 July 2005 (08:20 PM), J.D. said:

Other movies I wish I never saw as a kid: Kingdom of the Spiders (with William Shatner, the spiders win)

Well, really, everyone loses in that sort of match-up.

I remember back in the days before VCRs, Mom and Dad used to take us to see odd films from days gone by. We saw classics like The Wizard of Oz, but we also saw When Worlds Collide (which became a favorite of mine), The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly, and some movie where a guy is shrunk to the size of an insect and spends most of his time in the crawlspace under a house fighting things like giant hairy claymation spiders. Ah, the good ol' days.


On 27 July 2005 (08:59 PM), Mom said:

Are you sure we took you to see The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly? I only remember seeing parts of it on TV and in the words of Petrie in the Land Before Time VII, it was "too spooky for me." I also don't remember seeing When Worlds Collide. I know your dad would "sneak" you boys out one at a time sometimes; could you have seen the movies then? Our memories are certainly not matching!


On 27 July 2005 (09:17 PM), Jeff said:

I know we went to see The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly in the theater when we were little -- I think it was probably at The Pix theater in Woodburn.

I also remember that movie with the shrunken man and the nasty hairy spiders... I don't think I could watch it now. On the subject of spiders, they are the one thing that still creeps me out. I can handle the cute little black jumping spiders, but anything bigger or creepier than that is fair game to become a wall-trophy...


On 27 July 2005 (09:17 PM), Jeff said:

I know we went to see The Good, The Bad, and the Ugly in the theater when we were little -- I think it was probably at The Pix theater in Woodburn.

I also remember that movie with the shrunken man and the nasty hairy spiders... I don't think I could watch it now. On the subject of spiders, they are the one thing that still creeps me out. I can handle the cute little black jumping spiders, but anything bigger or creepier than that is fair game to become a wall-trophy...


On 27 July 2005 (09:47 PM), tammy said:

Thats funny about the chickens. Being raised on a small farm butchering chickens was common place. We loved watching the chickens flop through the orchard without their heads.

I saw my first movie when I was 27 years old so I have no memorys of scary things like that. In fact, I've never seen any of the movies you've mentioned here.


On 28 July 2005 (12:52 AM), Ron said:

Actually the guy's ( Mike Staudenmier) thumb was split open because it got between 2 helmets as the guys bead butted each other. Mike was the linebacker and I was the defensive tackle and I went low to take the ball carrier down and Mike went over my back. My low hit caused the guy to fall forward faster than Mike was expecting and his thumb didn't get out of the way fast enough. I didn't know what happened, I just saw Mike run off the field and he never returned for the rest of the game. When I took off my jersey at the end of the game it had blood all over the back of it.
Mike's thumb healed OK. 3 1/2 years ago he bought a home 4 houses down from me on the other side of the street and I asked him about his thumb and he says it healed and has a scar from the back, up over the end, and down the front from where they sewed it back together.


On 28 July 2005 (03:15 AM), Mom said:

I still don't remember us taking you kids to see The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly at any theater, the Pix or no. If we did, we certainly must not have read movie reviews back in those days or we wouldn't have taken you to see some of those you remember seeing. (Big, hairy spiders? Don't recall that one, either!) It could be that we trusted the Pix to have good family movies, too. I only remember taking you to see that type of thing there.


On 28 July 2005 (05:30 AM), J.D. said:

I still don't remember us taking you kids to see The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly at any theater, the Pix or no.

Oh, you most defintiely took us to see GBU at the Pix. That memory is clear as day. I think Tony was an infant, because I recall you had to spend time with him in the lobby or the cry room. (Which theaters had cry rooms? I forget.)

Also, Mom: note that I'm not really critical of you for taking us to see these films. Except for Tony, we turned out fine. (Haha. That's a joke. Sort of.) We loved going to see these movies. GBU helped mold us into gunfighting cowboys for some time afterward. The scifi films (When World Collide, the shrunnken man thing) — which we saw as a family, not as "sneaking out" — helped instill a life-long love of the genre in me.

Another film you took me (us?) to see: Westworld. This, too, scared the hell out of me. It was written by Michael Crichton and has the typical Michael Crichton plot. (The plot is almost identical to Jurassic Park, but with robot cowboys instead of dinosaurs. Michael Crichton only really has one plot.) Scary movie.

Dad was taking me to see James Bond films on "sneak outs" when I was six or seven! I preferred those to Disney films, and so did he.


On 28 July 2005 (05:36 AM), J.D. said:

And, Tammy, I'm dying to know what movie was the first film you saw. At twenty-seven, huh? It must have been something like The Men and a Baby or Dirty Dancing.


On 28 July 2005 (08:26 AM), tammy said:

JD it was called Just one of The Guys. (I think) It was about a girl that pretended to be a boy to get into a boys school. There were locker room scenes that were about more than I could handle! I mean, here's this girl in the boys locker room and they're walking around naked. I like to have died!

I kept whispering to me girlfriend, "I sure hope Jesus dont come back right now." A little later I'd say,"I'm just praying this movie ends before the rapture."

I was as nervous as a cat on a tin roof. Later my friend told me I ruined the entire movie for her. She was seriously upset at me. She had paid good money to see it and I ruined it. Looking back it was kinda rude of me! LOL

BTW, this would have been 1987.


On 28 July 2005 (08:42 AM), jenefer said:

I don't think that a fear of bears is irrational. Any fear of bears is a good thing. Bears are dangerous, and they might, indeed, come after a single person in the wilderness. Remember the buddy system at all times.

I was interested about the Sweet Home High School story. Bob graduated from Sweet Home HS in 1966, I believe. He played football and ran track. He was good enough to go to state competition in track. He has fond memories of those years. We went to a reunion several years back, but you can never go back. Beautiful area. I really liked this posting


On 28 July 2005 (08:44 AM), Mom said:

I'm glad you weren't warped for life by those movies. :-) Yes, the Pix had a cry room and I spent some time with Tony there -- he didn't like it when the lights went out and he no longer was getting lots of attention. I have to say that he has turned out to be a fine man, as have you and Jeff.

You got your revenge when you were a teenager and rented The Shining. I only watched parts of it, but I still remember being totally creeped out when Jack Nicholson put his axe through the door and said, "Heeeeere's Johnny!"


On 28 July 2005 (09:06 AM), Jeff said:

On the subject of Ron's High School Football games, I have blurry memories.

I remember going to at least two different games, one of which I think was at Canby High School... maybe we went with grandma and grandpa Roth? The only memories I have of that game are of the players stretching before the game... maybe I fell asleep right after that?

I also remember driving quite a ways to another game, probably the Sweet Home game. I have a memory of walking around one end of the track, near one of the endzones, and seeing a player (in pain) laying down and being attended to... but my memory is so foggy that I really can't be sure it was from that game.

Do any of you know what year that would have been?


On 28 July 2005 (09:47 AM), Pam said:

J.D.- you have to read A Walk in the Woods. You would love it. It is your type of humor exactly and it is written by a guy with an irrational fear of bears who goes backpacking. He has a whole chapter on bear attacks (actually lack thereof) on the appalacian trail. It is a very fast read as well. I highly recommend it.


On 28 July 2005 (11:49 AM), Mom said:

I meant to say "scarred for life", not "warped." You may notice that one of the posts above was made at 3:15 a.m.; I was unable to sleep due to the heat, thus my muddled brain this morning. :-)


On 28 July 2005 (03:50 PM), Fred Kiesche said:

I read Salem's Lot in college, when I worked nights as a security guard to pay for the school bills. I was deep into it, when some friends came by the job site and rapped on the window to see if I wanted them to get me some food.

I nearly jumped through the ceiling when the knocking came...I wasn't at the scratching at the window bit, but an equally engrossing scene.


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